“It takes two to tango!” I think love is just like that. Have you tried so hard and gave all your heart and soul to someone and suddenly there is a third person!
I am surprised to hear someone said, “I enjoy being the mistress! I get all the joy and fun with the man but I don’t have to deal with his dirty laundry!”
Some argue, “There is nothing between us!” ” No sex, no kiss, not even holding hands!” However, you can hear how protective he/her toward someone. Almost every few sentences, you will hear certain person’s name! You can hear through their voice and see their body language changes when they are concern about this person. It is so different than just caring for a friend. In their eyes, it is not cheating. In my eyes, emotional betrayal is worst than just physical betrayal because he/she is investing their emotion to this third person. Your partner might be used to comfort you no matter how bad you two fight. Now, he/she walks away when you confront or challenge the emotional involvement of this third person. How sad to see there are people throw away the love that they build over a third person! Or maybe it was meant to be for them to be together. At least, the partner can break off this relationship with dignity first.
When you love someone with your body, heart, and soul, you deserve to have the same return to you! If someone cannot even understand this simple concept and involve with another person, you should feel proud to walk away. He/she is not worthy of your love! Don’t be a doormat! You are a masterpiece of God’s creation! You have great value, and worthy of someone treat you with all their heart and soul!
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