How do you find your CONFIDENCE?

I have read many quotes about confidence but I couldn’t find one that helps me to find my confidence! Many successful people said you have to have confidence in yourself to achieve anything.  I will admit that I am one of those who seeks approval from my parents but I will never get it. Nothing I do is good enough for them!

But I want to change! I want to feel the feeling of confidence! People said fake it till you make it! I have been faking it for so long that it is not working anymore! Actually, it never works!  I truly want to be that confident person believes in my skills, my talent, my value or good enough.

HOW?

Today, I don’t have a quote but I am here to ask for everyone who is willing to share how you find your confidence in yourself? Not only I can learn from your experience, I believe many will benefit from it too.  Yes, I am freaking out to write this here.  I hope I will at least get one respond! Help, please!