There are many reasons why relationships didn’t work that cause breakups and heartache. The pain, the tears, and sadness are real! If the person that broke up with us is really the problem, then, why are we still sad especially after we tried to save the love that was there once. We should be happy that he/she is finally out of our lives, no more crying alone, no more fights, and everything that’s hurtful is gone. Sometimes, both people could be nice people but it didn’t work because they want different things in life. I am starting to wonder what is the real reason that we feel so sad when a relationship ends. This is just my theory. I think we are sad and feel pain because we open our precious heart, trust, hope, body and soul. I have heard that some women even gave their money and everything to their men. We invested a lot of emotion and took a risk to give our heart to someone who we thought there is a chance for a happily ever after ending. Unfortunately, it didn’t work out. Are we truly sad because of the relationship that’s not meant-to-be or bad ended or because of our vulnerable self-being hurt, or because of our pride?
There were times when my friends told me their men broke up with them, I would tell them that he actually did you a favour. Yes, it will hurt for a while but I don’t want to see my friends continue being hurt by those men who do not treasure and value my friends. You see, when you are in a bad relationship, you are not the only who is hurt so do the people who care for you.
The sadness from a broken heart may stay with you forever. However, you can reflect on each relationship. For example, you might see a pattern that you keep attracting guys who cannot commit. Maybe once you realize that you might finally meet the one who will commit with you with his whole heart, treasure and love you forever!
There are true stories that breaking up is a form of awakening that the person goes through the pain from a broken heart to realize the importance and the meaning of love. They return to his/her loved one as a new person who would make all the effort to renew their relationship.
Your tears will not be wasted from a broken heart. I believe we all have something special and worthy of love. There might be someone is waiting for you to heal from the past heartache so he/she can show up in your life to share the magical love with you!
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